Dating/Matrimonial Site

I want to have a Matrimonial Website which should include: I want the profile of all the users including the male and the female. In the same way it will be associate with the specific area ,city and zip code so that for showing the matches regarding to specific user. So when the user will select the match the email will be delivered to the specific user or also they have the option to send the message to their match. Also in the same ways there will be advance search availability for the person to match according to the requirements. Should include a online chat function. Want also payment from members. Also I want the complete administrator panel from where I have the complete control of the website including all the modules (membership module).