Need server administrator [ fix mail server issue ] -- 2

[login to view URL] when my clients send me email from here , i dont get email in my gmail [ socialfansgeek@ gmail . com ] i contacted MY VPS GUYZ they told me this . Upon checking the server log, It appears that you are using gmail address "socialfansgeek @ gmail . com" for communication. Outbound connection on port 25 is blocked in this server due to which you are not getting mail, so you have to open it in your firewall (Port 25 Outbound) ===== 2016-11-28 11:36:39 1cBQn9-0005zd-CR support R=virtual_user T=dovecot_virtual_delivery C="250 2.0.0 /6MGIzd5PFgGWgAAYgqYig Saved" 2016-11-28 11:37:42 1cBQn9-0005zd-CR H=[login to view URL] [[login to view URL]] Connection timed out 2016-11-28 11:37:42 1cBQn9-0005zd-CR == socialfansgeek @ gmail . com (support @ [login to view URL]) R=dkim_lookuphost T=dkim_remote_smtp defer (110): Connection timed out ====== Please send the following telnet output to your server provider and ask them to open outbound connection on port 25. ====== root@s50-62-30-107 [~]# telnet [login to view URL] 25 Trying 66.228.53.186... ^C root@s50-62-30-107 [~]# telnet [login to view URL] 25 Trying 173.194.194.26... ======= This should fix your problem. i told them i dont know wht it means , can u fix this ? Reply comes like this Sorry, but this should be done by your server admin only and we cannot provide support for firewall related things. Being a cpanel license provider, we can help you cpanel related issues only and we don't provide support for server administrative task. Get back to us once this is done. Then i hired 2 developers / freelancer . No one could FIgure out the Problem. THen i contacted godaddy support. This is a self managed server. We do not have access to be able to help you with your server. And suggested m to HIRE - server administrator . What i do now ? i am so stressed & depressed. issue is not big just 5 min work . if you know what u are doing. Regards