adult site web promotion

I own a adult phone entertainment website. I am looking for different ways of promotion such as yahoo groups with a large database of people that I can post on, sending out mass email, print ad, plug traffic, and any other type of adult web promotion you might have available. The traffic needs to be coming from US. I am looking for strait traffic, gay traffic, and shemale traffic. Please specify which type of traffic you will be sending and how when writing an offer.